There are simple non custodial solution (trust minimized) like Phoenix, I use it and it works really good, you have a full LN node ont your phone. The down side is that your channels are with ASINC but that is that, is still non-custodial.
Other solutions like Blixt are interesting since you have a full node +LN in your phone too afaik and you get to manage your own channels.
My takeway is this so far:
- Is good to thrive to be as non-custodial as posible
- Is also ok to use custodial services, the problem are not those but being systematically forced to use trusted 3rd partyes (like banking system now) and we are not by any means
- More non-custodial AND user friendly solutions are developing really fast so I don't think there is a reason to panic
- LN is permissionless even for someone who want to offer a custodial LN service, so you have perfect free market there doing its thing (in contrast with the baking system rn)