I never wanted to get married…
My girl who ended up becoming my wife was the only woman I ever met who told me her parents were still together *AND* she had a happy childhood.
That’s why I married her…
Bc that’s what I want for our daughter
Discussion
someone who had a difficult childhood and has healed is also good for your children
many of us have been children of divorced parents or dysfunctional families, and that doesn’t mean we are destined to repeat history
maybe that's why we value family unity so deeply and work hard, staying committed to keeping our families strong and united.
...contrary my wife and I both come from divorce households and we promised to each other to never do this to our kids since this represented a pretty rough time in our childhood. We navigated the treacherous waters of raising 3 kids and after 25 years are still very happily married. It can work both ways with enough dedication and ability to compromise.
We have hurdles as I’m sure you did. The hardest thing in the world is to stay together through it, and I hope it continues for you (and me)
It’s so important to all of us, collectively.
Children have the best advantages in life with both parents.