Thanks, just started an Ubuntu 22 to try a nostr relay
Well you need a box to run it on but the software is free. I run this one and it has a guide: https://github.com/hoytech/strfry
Its VERY quick too.
Discussion
Yeah run strfry, seems to be the fastest, got a major jackzap recently and damus relay is running it too. Only all damus users share it ... This one would be your personal relay..