I'm kinda increasingly bearish on Lightning. The experience seems way worse than, say, a year ago. I'm rarely able to make payments anymore for anything higher than a few hundred sats, whether I'm using Mutiny or a custodial wallet like Alby (let alone my own node, gave up on actually using that for payments ages ago). Like I'm trying to buy an Amazon card for ~100k sats right now and all I get is payment pending.
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Use Phoenix wallet and dont run a node. Phone wallet is the best lightning wallet there is.
Mutiny has a lot of issues alby is wak. Zues is expensive.
Phoenix is the BEST lightning wallet
If you on Android use minibits to receive zaps