when i visited my friend in Trondheim, i forgot to flush the toilet once, and my friend said he'd usually get angry, but since he knew a little about how i am, and that i have #ADHD, he asked why that happened.

forgetting to flush isn't unusual for me. it doesn't happen every week, but it happens more often when my usual routine is disrupted by something like travel or staying at somebody else's house.

i can have routines but they're very fragile because it's just not something that comes very naturally to me. imagine a house of cards and someone opens the door...