I feel you, I have a hand washing problem ๐ซ I think itโs OCD or something cos when I get stressed it gets worse. Shea butter on them over night is magic for things like this ๐๐ฝ ๐ซ๐ซ (just incase your hands look scary like mine did - cracked/bleeding etc.)
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When I was a kid it was a lot worse. My hands would bleed but now itโs a lot better. I try to purposely not wash my hands and just embrace germs ๐
Thank you for sharing with me ๐ซ you have no idea how much better youโve made me feel. Iโve felt kinda alone with this (though I know lots of other people have this issue too). It just feels nice knowing someone else I kinda know has had to deal with it and is doing good ๐๐ฝ but Iโm also so sorry you ever had to, especially as a kid ๐ซ๐ซ๐ซ๐ซ๐ซ itโs a frustrating thing for sure. I like your solution ๐คฃ been thinking about it, but I donโt think Iโm quite there yet ๐ซ
Itโs more common than you think. In school they scare you with those videos that use a special light to show you where germs are. There was one kid in my class whose hands were so bad that everyone made fun of him and called him ashy. I feel bad about that now lol but yeah I think itโs from the harsh chemicals in the soap and the hot water. I came across this lady while shopping once that tried to sell me this special lotion. She put the lotion on my skin so she can show me how much nicer itโll look after. She kept rubbing it and these bubbles started coming out. She was like wtf Iโve never seen this before you, do you wash your hands a lot? Lmao I realized that absorbing soap isnโt better for me than having some germs on my skin.
Aw man, why do they do that to the kids ๐ญ๐ซ
Aw bless him ๐ฅน Iโve been there. One time I washed my hands so much before work they looked white cos they were caked in soap residue. I moisturised like crazy that morning but still no luck. I was running late so I had to just deal but of course the tube was so packed that morning (bloody northern line) and I had to hold onto a pole surrounded by people. A guy was just staring at my hands and I was mortified ๐ญ I wanted to tell him it was from soap, and that I moisturised I swear, but then everyone would look. I laugh about it now though ๐๐ซ
I use tallow soap now โค๏ธโ๐ฅ someone on nostr told me about it once.
๐๐คฃ๐ matteeee ๐๐ซ๐ซ๐ซ not the suds. Honestly, I think you right. Now instead of needlessly washing my hands when stressed Iโll punch something (pillow, not person), draw, walk or write. Lost some weight from the walking, silver lining