Do you have children with her? If not, why visit?
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No, but she has 2 kids that look at my mom as grandma🤷🏽
I was IN LOVE in love with her. And I still care about her as a human being🤷🏽
I think the alcohol is really what changed her. But I don't know that unless I see her without now🤷🏽
You obviously have an enormous heart and a tremendous reserve of compassion. I hope you find someone who treats you as you deserve to be treated, sometimes it’s best to quietly close the door and leave it closed. Maybe the kids can still see Grandma? Who cares if she agrees. She’s incarcerated right?
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Thank you for your kind words.
She's no longer incarcerated. But she's now in a women's program for mental health and alcohol
Thus me going to see her today. She gets to go out 3 tontes a week 2 hours at a time right now.
The kids are at my house during the week when their dad is at work in the afternoons.
She's hoping to come in Wednesdays and take a bit of the load off us and get in some mommy time with her kids🤷🏽
We don't have to interact. I'm just trying to be a good bright light in her life, she's lived a hard one since a young age and it seemed to be like all she had when she was in jail as super at all was me and her schitzo sister states away🤷🏽