I don't remember that. A non custodial wallet is a wallet that you have the keys, the seed words. WoS holds your keys and therefore, like a bank, own your money. You are trusting them not to steal it.

Non custodial wallets are your responsibility, usually aren't as slick as custodial wallets but cannot rug pull your arse. I run a node with LND for lightning. I use #alby to connect it to #nostr and other stuff but I use #Zeus on my phone. I prefer it. You can use #Zeus as a node on your phone. You would need to open a channel to use it but I would help you should you choose to go that way.