OK I’m gonna answer you and give you some real talk …
You’re beautiful woman and sadly because of that you’re gonna face him meanie heads on this site … surely are used to that in real life to being judged based off of your appearance so when the haters come decide how you’re gonna react now love you mean it
Now you’ll find that many of us on here I’ll have various backgrounds etc. the best thing I could offer you is just to tell you to be yourself and to be who you are and be authentic because that’s what matters most right 🙏💜🫂