What I actually meant was that you should take care of your family, but you need to be well yourself in order to do so. In other words, if you can’t even take care of yourself, you can’t take care of your family either. But the truth is, once you’re well, family naturally becomes the priority. That’s the kind of thing I was trying to say.
I’d also like to be able to chat in Portuguese if you’d like—I’m available. But thanks for the response