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I was a unique case of homeschooling because I was homeschooled through 8th grade then went made the decision to go try high school because I was worried I might be stupid compared to other kids who I knew through sports, clubs, community, etc… My parents made it clear that it was my decision to make, so I made it.

Turns out I was not, in fact, stupid relative to the other kids… I was able to skip through math classes in high school and graduated valedictorian while being a three-sport athlete all four years. I discovered that public school is absurdly easy, because everything caters to the lowest common denominator. The focus was on time spent (in your desk, doing homework, etc) vs deliverables. Put another way, it was an “hourly” mentality instead of a “salary” mentality.

That said, I had some really great science and math teachers in high school that I am still very grateful for. They were also the type of teachers who thought administrative mandates were bullshit and just wanted to focus on teaching.

Things I liked most about being homeschooled:

- I finished all my work in 2-3 hours in the morning and spent the rest of the day outside — I was outside constantly.

- I was done when I was done. There was no “homework” because it was all at home.

- I could do my work from anywhere, or work ahead a few days bitcoin if needed. There were no arbitrary constraints.

- It taught me to work on deliverables.

- I read a shitload.

- I was never uncomfortable around “adults.” They were just bigger people to me. I showed everyone respect, but I was perfectly comfortable and happy hanging out with adults even as the only kid (plus my sister).

- I got to do a bunch of random shit because I my schoolwork itself took very little time.

On the subject of random shit, one of my favorite memories is when my mom set me up with a legit blacksmith to apprentice for a day. He’s the first person who taught me about Fibonacci. Seriously brilliant and badass dude. Made a huge impression on me and I will never forget it.

I also just played in the woods constantly. Started fires, built forts, used knives and axes and guns from a young age.

In terms of things I disliked, the only real thing was the worry that I was not going to be as smart as my peers at public school. Benchmarking was hard. It’s the whole reason I decided to go to high school, only to find out that a lot of people are complete morons, with zero initiative, drive, or grit.

I also spend a day a week at a Montessori school for a year or two. That was neat. Zero “schoolwork” was done. We just built shit and cooked shit and played outside.

My parents also helped found a small charter school (about 10 kids). We would get together once a week and had a couple tutors who came in. I had an awesome Mennonite algebra tutor named Edith. We got on swell.

Anyway, highly recommend homeschooling, and will be doing it with our kid(s). There are infinitely more online resources available now than there were when my parents did it.

I was homeschooled from 6 till 9 years old. Approximately 4 years.

The reasons they took me out were primarily behavioural. I was very controlled by my Mum and due to being naturally curious, experimental and rebellious I clashed with her. I took out my frustrations at school where I felt I could express myself more. The school did not approve and my parents decided it was better to have me at home with my younger siblings where with The Lords help they could keep a closer eye on me.

Needless to say the issues with Mum only increased. We fought a lot. She was stressed and I needed space from her. It was volatile and in the end she was physically abusive.

She was also quite a good teacher and I enjoyed the curriculum which was Christian and from the US (I grew up in New Zealand). I loved the US history, especially the pioneering history and folklore. My Dad to sight me to question things and work with my hands (as well as constant Bible study). Mum taught me a love of the body, and science and nourished my physically with amazing food.

I played with my younger brother and sisters all the time and was allowed pretty free reign to explore and hurt myself. There were lots of good times too although I’m highly social and missed school. In the end I went back as Mum was not the right teacher for me and I needed more social time.

I loved school. Especially the practical subjects like wood work, art, and creative writing. I loved having girls in my class too and I made life long friends between ages 9 and 14.

School was good, homeschool was a great foundation. I liked the blend.

Currently have pulled out kids out of the education system and are travelling with all 4 of them. We are two month into World Schooling and considering keeping it going for a while. The online resources like Khan academy are amazing.

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Wow. That's inspiring to read. Takes courage to do. I'm working as an Economic teacher in the system and it's tough to be a part of at times.

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Thanks,

It’s amazing to write that down. I was inspired by others replies to share and in writing it I realised how much of an impactful experience going from school to home school and back to school was. It has really shaped me…

My eldest daughter is 10, loves video games, was skateboarding earlier today and is into Bitcoin. This sounds perfect for her.

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