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Yeah I noticed it’s less satisfying to me now that I’m a little older too. I think as we understand ourselves better, we tend to value those superficial things less. But I also think some people that never understood themselves well end up getting divorced and then going through this phase even though they’re older. So maybe it’s just a phase?
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Thursday 5∞ 1y ago

I don't think divorce is a good idea generally, therefore the key is to be happy by yourself first, then you can commit. Definitely know yourself before entering a relationship. Be careful not to drown yourself in a sea of pointless pussies, in the wise words of Hank Moody.

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MAHDOOD 1y ago

Learning to be happy by yourself is great advice. I think you have to date a little to learn who you are though. Humans are relational animals, we learn a lot about ourselves when interacting with others.

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Thursday 5∞ 1y ago

There is no formula. Definitely go out there, have fun and be relaxed. You'll meet what you need if you pay attention to your gut feeling. There's your radar! I have a feeling one year from now you'll found what you are looking for.