So true! I learned that lesson with my 1st bf and that REAL change has to come from *internally* and can *ONLY* be made by the person.

So many girls do not learn that til too late and waste their time trying to change boys!

I like FULLY *GROWN-UP* and *MATURE* Men cuz a ManChild is a total waste of my time and energy!

Especially as a creative/artsy person!