Hell yeah! That's an interesting way to phrase it, but this is kind of what I've been getting at. A woman has a natural, automatic mechanism to verify that her partner is strong, is true to himself, and is a leader. When you sacrifice yourself, a woman makes the pain of that brutally present and forceful, but she does precious little to guide you: she probably does not even know the answers, and that would defeat the purpose of your journey anyway. If you can't stand on your own two feat as a man, you do not deserve her.