It's still difficult sometimes to know when I'm being tested or not, but the easy way to deal with those tests/questions is to be righteous if I feel tested.

It's difficult cause on the one hand you try to make your partner happy, but on the other hand you have to make sure you are happy too and make sure you don't come across like a pushover..

Like Patrice says: a man's happiness trickles down!

I do get a little pissed when I know I'm being tested, but I realize it's not intentional. Like she didn't plan on testing me, but she's just following her feelings