Let me just say this....

It just seems like both of you are hurt and being selfish because you're in your feelings.

A child shouldn't be used like this.

I'd honestly like to see you guys set aside your anger for your son.

I understand that compromising isn't always easy .... but he's said he's unwilling to compromise...that gets people nowhere in life. Life is full of compromise.

Besides that, joint custody gives everyone space to not have to be an adult 24/7.

You can go out, have fun, not worry that the child is in danger... because you both love him very much.