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It's crazy to me how many people I meet in their early 30s don't want kids.

It usually comes off in 1 of 2 ways:

1) Defeatist: I'll never meet the right girl or I can't afford a house so how can I afford kids

2) Denialism: Maintaining my freedom is a much better life than being tied down with kids

Whether it be adherence to a moral code, a habit, a person, religion or career, I have personally found that living a life full of commitments brings the most joy so I don't understand people subscribed to #2

My biggest commitment is to myself and giving up is something I'll never do, so I also don't understand #1 though I know why this is pervasive.

To each their own, but on a societal scale, I think this sentiment will lead to a generation of lonely old people. That is both sad and incredibly scary.

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Stjepan 4mo ago 💬 1

I often think that humans, thanks to their intellect, managed to escape the grip of natural selection. But attitudes like this remind me that we didn’t really escape at all we just changed the battlefield. Natural selection no longer weeds out only the slow, the weak, or the physically unfit. Instead, it now works on a psychological level. Today, it punishes those who give up too easily, those who delude themselves, and those who are too selfish to think beyond their own comfort.

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Ben Justman🍷 4mo ago

Well said

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