For most of my life I've felt uncomfortable using the word love.

As a man, it felt feminine & was often used as a tool of manipulation. It felt safer just to avoid the word entirely.

It wasn't until I was exposed to the concept of unconditional love (Agape) did it all start making sense.

The ancient Greeks had 7 or 8 words that were all translated into love in English. Here's the 4 relevant ones:

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I think this is the same for a lot of men. It is only relatively recently where I have started using the word love outside of a romantic or family context. I am still fairly selective as to when I will use it as I know a lot of people will misinterpret the meaning.

The English language can be quite constricting at times. The ancient Greeks seem to have understood the subtleties.

Thanks for sharing 💜

I was often used as a tool of manipulation also. I feel you. But there was a time after going through major experience, a switch happened inside of me. We are not supposed to avoid the world nor love, that is simply giving the power to the manipulater. If we keep on that mind set, they go on, severing our energy, from affar. Unconditional love is the answer and the purpose.🫂