Please show me where the sats you zap me to my LN address on nostr are going. Did you know the final destination?

The answer is simple: NO.

But if you use a self-hosted LN address linked to your own self-hosted node, It will be quite easy for anybody to find out...

You see what I mean?

Again... custodial (non-KYC) are a perfect DECOY for the public zaps.

Let's cut the crap with this crazy "self-custodial" everything when is not really necessary this paranoia.