I probably overlooked the relays part but if relays use a spammy little woke ass reporting bot to filter their content, be mad at the relay operators and call them out publicly. This is like being mad at water because someone drowned. Don't get me wrong, I think it's retarded (I hope it reports me too now) to report someone for using words like "idiots" or "fucking" but the fact is that there will be all kinds of relays that have different kinds of filters and you're not going to be accepted into all of them.
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That's what I meant by censorship, if I'm not allowed by some relays
That's retarded
No it's not? If you hosted a relay, would you allow pedos to post to it or would you ban them?
C'mon somethings everyone would ban
But !d!0t and F#cki& 🙄
Yeah I too think it's stupid to be banned from a relay because of saying "idiot" or "fucking" but if you operate a woke relay, that might be a rule you want to enforce. Ultimately, a nostr relay is just someone elses server and database, which speaks the nostr protocol. You and I don't have any inherent rights to write to someone elses relay, the relay operator is free to implement any filtering/censoring they want to. That just means that you are censored from posting to that relay but you're not censored by nostr . You can still post to other relays or your own, in contrast to getting banned on Twitter where you loose your entire social identity if they don't agree with you.
That said, most people tend to agree on some stuff as you said (such as pedos = bad) so I'd expect most relays to accept most people.