I’m sorry you feel that way. I’m a firm believer of what you allow and don’t allow. Instead of needing to be save or seen, for me, if there is a problem, change the situation and if can’t change, then change the approach and if nothing changes, then i have to remove myself from the equation. In my note, I was in awe by the level of maturity that came with kindness, but am in complete awareness of the issues I need to resolve to eliminate from future attacks and working on it. Be your own hero, write your own story. You got this.