Of course it’s not. I’m an uncle to 5 kids. I was a terrible human and didn’t want kids/wasn’t for me. Doesn’t mean i literally think kids are fiat and what you said is shit. It just doesn’t work for everyone, a bit more than .01% is all my point is, not that taboo to be on the other side of this argument depending on what you have been thru/lost/dealt with as a person 🤷♂️🤝
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For me it’s the opposite. I’ve been through a lot man. Having kids has been very healing for me.
I totally dig and respect that side too. We are the same but different in that way. Being an uncle is amazing. But enjoy leaving it all when it’s time to go home.
I totally get it. I also had shitty parents. Got felonies as a minor. In and out of stuff and shitty situations. Have lost over 25 friends and family to drug overdose/dui death/murder/suicide
Just have a different perspective on things than most. Appreciate yours/our ability to have a constructive conversation about this stuff too🤝✌️🫂