I get you, my notifications are turned off for almost everything. 😅
I only have a few people in particular that I have notifications turned on for, but I still say if it's something you need a quick response to, give me a call.
One of the things I find annoying here is that on Primal, for example, I see that someone responded to a note, and on Damus it doesn't even show up. But even so, I don't care about notifications. 😅