As of now, my relay spits out stats like below every 10s and these 62 subscribers have the machine very busy with 8 CPU maxed out, 40mbit/s for hours, ...
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Sun Dec 18 23:56:01 UTC 2022: pinging all sockets. 322MB / 490MB free.
62 subscribers maintain 62 channels and are monitoring these queries:
21 times kinds[1, 2], since
19 times kinds[1, 3, 4], tags, since
19 times authors, kinds[0, 1, 2, 3, 4], since
19 times ProbabilisticFilter( kinds: [0] ids/authors/tags: 1000s )
12 times authors, kinds[3]
7 times kinds[0, 1, 2, 7], since, limit
7 times kinds[3], tags
7 times kinds[1, 42, 7, 6], tags, since
6 times authors, kinds[1]
6 times kinds[1], limit
5 times kinds[4], tags, limit
5 times kinds[4], tags, since
5 times authors, kinds[4], since
4 times authors, kinds[4]
4 times ProbabilisticFilter( kinds: [1, 42, 7, 6] ids/authors/tags: 100s after )
4 times ProbabilisticFilter( kinds: [0] ids/authors/tags: 100s after )
3 times authors, kinds[0]
3 times ids, kinds[1], limit
2 times since
2 times kinds[0, 1, 2, 3, 4], tags
2 times ids
2 times authors, kinds[0], since
2 times tags, limit
2 times ids, limit
2 times kinds[1, 42, 7, 6], tags, limit
2 times ProbabilisticFilter( kinds: [1, 42, 7, 6] ids/authors/tags: 1000s after )
2 times ProbabilisticFilter( kinds: [0] ids/authors/tags: 1000s after )
1 times ProbabilisticFilter( ids/authors/tags: 100s after )
1 times tags, since
1 times NoMatchFilter
1 times ProbabilisticFilter( ids/authors/tags: 100s )
1 times authors, kinds[1, 42, 7, 6], since
1 times kinds[1, 42], until, limit
1 times authors, kinds[1, 42, 7, 6], limit
1 times ProbabilisticFilter( kinds: [1, 42, 7, 6] ids/authors/tags: 100s )
1 times ProbabilisticFilter( kinds: [0] ids/authors/tags: 100s )
1 times ProbabilisticFilter( kinds: [0] ids/authors/tags: 10000s )
1 times authors, kinds[1, 42], limit
1 times authors, kinds[3, 0, 6]
1 times authors, kinds[1, 42, 5, 6, 7], since, limit
1 times kinds[1, 42, 5, 6, 7], tags, since, limit
1 times authors, kinds[4], limit
1 times kinds[1, 42, 5, 6, 7], until, limit
1 times ProbabilisticFilter( kinds: [1, 42, 5, 6, 7] ids/authors/tags: 1000s )
82721 Events sent in 3012ms.
14 Events received via Websocket.
50 Channels closed.
19 Sessions closed.
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