LOL Second woman is getting treated worse, but she's too low-value to inspire better.
His love simply falls short.
nostr:npub12gu8c6uee3p243gez6cgk76362admlqe72aq3kp2fppjsjwmm7eqj9fle6 mentioned this a while ago, very resonant with me.
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Don't expect a successful black woman to fall for rhetoric meant to denigrate the value of marriage.
We're slowly managing to crawl out of that particular hell.
> We're slowly managing to crawl out of many particular hells.
Yep.
Not going to speak for him about his situation, but I'll try and ascribe it to mine with good intentions.
Without the use of 'low-value', could it be that my love falls short? Can't make an argument beyond a subjective one there, but question if it has something to do with not growing up embedded in a community with strong values. Only recently learning and understand their structures and purposes. Some wistfulness to have grown up in that environment and cultivating those values, but I do think I've passed over that window of time where it could have made a bigger impact on me.