Yes there is a reason and that is that the engineering prowess of the nostr dev community is, as far as I can see so far, not great.
There is an overall optimistic naiveté -- if not to say outright delusion -- as to how inherently difficult internet-scale distributed systems are.
The nostr dev community will hit a wall where suddenly things won't scale and then wonder how they got into this.
Your skill coding widgets into a app does not prepare you to architect distributed systems, that's on a totally different level.
Or this this guy here who took my totally absurd, facetious post about "trivial quantum computers" serious as if it had any merit. Oh dear.
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