I usually read all the mutes.
The mute list is like a trigger warning.
Like warning this guy might suck balls
And then about 90% of the time I click and that person does in fact suck balls and they’re still up to their same old ball sucking ways.
But then sometimes I check and I’m like this guy seems cool, I’ll unmute him. lol
It’s a good system. I recommend trying it out.