If you feel attacked, then you have my sincere apology. Some degree of attack-ness is necessary, though, for the sake of finding truth. Truth is compassion ; illusions are enslavement.
If it makes you feel better, I do this with people I agree with, too. For example, my stance against banking earned me no friends while I was studying economics at university, despite generally liking and agreeing with my professors on most things. I do try to soften my wording, but there's just no way to completely smooth away the pointed "no/disagree" that's in a disagreement.