#[2] I suggest you give the user the choice to remove ❤️(likes).
You can then measure what % of Iris users opts to remove ❤️(likes), and share this info with the nostriches.
I suspect ❤️(likes) are a familiar pattern than newbie Iris and nostr users will want to see.
Feature Request in github including mockups: https://github.com/irislib/iris-messenger/issues/290