I agree, I don’t want that culture either. Just looking at the nip for the kind 3 event it doesn’t look like it was intended to be where people published their preferred relays.

I’d be happy to standardise on kind 3 if we updated the NIP for that expressed purpose. But in talking to some folks they thought NIP 65 would be the way to solve the preferred relay problem going forward.

I just wanna go with what people prefer I am agnostic. Just pulling for one standard and I haven’t heard consensus yet.

This conviction is the best thing about you.