I think that mind altering substances are powerful to help the mind work through things with different mental patterns.
Drinking high quality and well paired wine can elevate flavors of meals. Do this with loved ones for celebratory meals and it can elevate the experience.
Drink to enhance
Not to escape
Obvs alcohol isn't "good for you" from a physiological perspective and is addictive, but much of what makes you feel horrible isn't the alcohol itself AND it's on your to use it responsibly. Many people can't do that and blame alcohol instead of the selves