Back in the mid-90's, when things like going to an internet caffe to get online because you didn't have a router at home were a thing, we used IRC to chat for hours, and hours.

The concept of picking a client (mostly but not only mIRC) and (manually!) connecting to a relay server (and even setting up ports) was common sense and trivial.

How can it be that, 30 years later, the experience on Nostr be less user-friendly and more frustrating? It should be completely seamless.

(Yes, I know that Nostr doesn't do the same, but you understand what I mean).