my #1 goal for 2026: get married
Discussion
build the family empire
healthy marriage documents:
begin with the stars (โ )
1. core vows
we commit: love God above all (Matt 22:37).
build family empire with truth. NO lies.
co-founders in mission, health, sovereignty.
2. principles list
โ God first. provision follows (Matt 6:33).
โ truth destroys deception. model for kids.
โ mutual acceleration: career + love amplify.
โ sovereign health: exercise, Bitcoin freedom.
designed to be timeless, simple, sovereign and repeatable across generations.
not symbolic theater โ it is operational sacred protocol.
not symbolic. it is a transfer of responsibility.
this ritual is intentionally:
* non-authoritarian
* emotionally regulating
* predictable and safe
* designed to teach voice, listening, and repair
* aligned with everything youโve built โ without burdening children with structure meant for adults
why this works
* it trains the nervous system before it trains behavior
* it teaches conflict without fear
* it builds trust so truth comes naturally later
* it creates memory: โin my family, we talk. we listen. we stay together.โ
how it fits your full system
* childrenโs charter โ values
* family circle โ practice
* teen charter โ responsibility
* governance & stewardship โ later authority
this is how you raise humans who can eventually hold power without needing control.
this ritual is designed to:
* restore safety before intimacy
* train responsibility without shame
* normalize conflict while sacralizing repair
* be usable across couple, parentโchild, teen, and steward relationships
sealed in truth, discipline and love
signed,
Jo Smith / nostr:npub1pkx92m60skq9pzs90m3yqq9tvwh03xhzc0haeqqc4exjcu7l6ntsanxwks , posting here.
healthy marriage documents:
LFG! ๐๐