she's not hyper-logical, whatever that means. like most women, across all cultures, she has vague premises that she defends with vehemence and incredibly convoluted arguments, because EVERYTHING is connected to EVERYTHING ELSE.
most women, across all cultures, also have the uncanny ability to be nice and sweet and kind to whomever they want, and absolute witches to those they dislike. seems like you've benefited from this, ha ha.