Use the mainline DHT, it is working and I verified it scales to 100 of thousands of users per relay and I had a cheap vps.
You can try it yourself.
```
npm i -g pkarr
pkarr resolve o4dksfbqk85ogzdb5osziw6befigbuxmuxkuxq8434q89uj56uyy
```
github.com/nuhvi/pkarr
Or try the proxied web demo pkarr.nuh.dev