Consider an own Lightning Node. Paying on your local Bitcoin meetup via mobile app nostr:npub1xnf02f60r9v0e5kty33a404dm79zr7z2eepyrk5gsq3m7pwvsz2sazlpr5 connected to your own Node really is something else. Feels fantastic.
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I hear you, but you need to give me time to wrap my head around all that stuff. Running Bitcoin core node now at first, then Lightning.