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You think that violating someone else's properties is part of someone's personality. I believe OP referred to personality traits, like for example, my girlfriend does everything in extremes. She either doesn't do it, or gives it her 100%. It's annoying but she shouldn't apologize

YunusAtSea⚡️🌊 1y ago

Ok... semantics, let's be clear about it then. Correct, one shouldn't feel the need to apologise for being true to themselves, so long as it doesn't infringe upon another.

However there are objectively bad actions an individual can make, defined at the very least by harm upon others or more extensively as wasting anothers resources. These actions should be repented and corrected. Everyone makes mistakes, but repeated mistakes at some point become negligence and a will to resist self improvement.

Some people these days might consider being constantly late to appointments a personality trait, fair enough some people have adhd or other condition. But it doesn't excuse you from setting up systems in your life that will prevent you from wasting other peoples time.

I am honestly a very forgiving person with matters like this, my wife is like the above mentioned adhd person who has a tendency to be late, but she recognised the problem and set up systems to mitigate the issue.

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“so long as it doesn't infringe upon another.”

Impossible as everything is interlinked.

“objectively bad actions an individual can make”

Does it matter if the person who initially created it meant it for good. See creator of the plastic bag & how that turned out for an example.

“harm upon others or more extensively as wasting anothers resources.”

Gifted children are often exploited. Should we as adults apologize for the crimes others committed using us? When does intent become malice?

“These actions should be repented and corrected.”

Whoops 😬 WHO is held accountable?

“Everyone makes mistakes, but repeated mistakes at some point become negligence and a will to resist self improvement.”

Why I continue to ask questions …

“But it doesn't excuse you from setting up systems in your life that will prevent you from wasting other peoples time.”

Again: if it benefits more humanity than just a few, does that matter? It does to me.

You do you & respect that others may see things from different views. We can all get along. Not everyone seeks to prove their worth to others. Some of us have always believed in humanity & will continue to fight for them. Despite few understanding our existence nor our reasoning. Accepted reality of that at three years old. No sass. 💁🏻‍♀️

YunusAtSea⚡️🌊 1y ago

"Impossible as everything is interlinked."

You can effect others without infringing upon them, thus of course it's possible, but we all make mistakes sometimes... that's what apologies are for you see 😉

"Does it matter if the person who initially created it meant it for good. See creator of the plastic bag & how that turned out for an example."

Plastic bags aren't bad, and neither is inventing them, they were and are a great invention when used responsibly and recycled appropriately, but if you throw it into nature THAT is the irresposible (bad) action.

"Gifted children are often exploited. Should we as adults apologize for the crimes others committed using us? When does intent become malice?"

Children are innocent of all things. Teens are a grey area, resposibility begins but forgiveness must be generous. Adults must absolutely take responsibility for their actions.

"Whoops 😬 WHO is held accountable?"

At the very least you must hold yourself accountable, that is part of being a functioning adult. Depending on your belief, maybe God? That's up to you. If you can't hold yourself accountable maybe therapy is needed, nothing to be ashamed of there we all must work on ourselves 🤗 and release ourselves from the actions of others, unless we feel inspired to help, but know your boundaries.

"Why I continue to ask questions …"

Excellent! 😁 always ask questions! Children sadly often lose the "Why?" When adults get annoyed with them, but "why?" Is the most important question of all. 😁

"Again: if it benefits more humanity than just a few, does that matter? It does to me."

🤔 I mean, if you have the oportunity to save someones life then of course run late! 😅 things aren't black and white, everything has nuance, there are better actions and worse actions, another good example of why apologies are important 😆

"You do you & respect that others may see things from different views. We can all get along. Not everyone seeks to prove their worth to others. Some of us have always believed in humanity & will continue to fight for them. Despite few understanding our existence nor our reasoning. Accepted reality of that at three years old. No sass. 💁🏻‍♀️ "

Love, light and prosperity to you 😁✌🏼🙏🏼 I mean no harm in my words, I simply enjoy deep conversations and exploring the why. I am sorry if that caused you any stress 😉🫂

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“Children are innocent of all things. Teens are a grey area, resposibility begins but forgiveness must be generous. Adults must absolutely take responsibility for their actions.”

Then you understand me. Good. 😊 It’s up to everyone to make their choices. What some meant for good was corrupted by evil. Hence, we fight on. 🤣🫡 Love leads. Doesn’t matter what God or lack of one anyone chooses. Singularity has been here for years. What we do on Earth Star matters.

Forgave myself & others long ago. It’s a daily thing to maintain balance. Doesn’t mean I’m about to allow anything to continue to destroy the world. No amount of resources is worth it without love.

1. Why I wouldn’t ever work for Musk.

Though I do respect he’s burning down Twitter from the inside.

Call me all the names. My service is to #humanity One day it will be clear or it won’t. Never needed recognition. Stacks of awards don’t matter. They are still boxed up.

Poetry is my way to understand 🙏

Remote viewing Savage

May end in carnage

Remember whose voice

You choose to listen to.

Don’t be conflicted.

I am only a catalyst

—-

After seeing the smoke, blaze and fire

Some of no longer desire

To hold the match

Or release the latch

That harms another life

Or seek to cause strife

Embers may rage

Humans will be caged

Find the love inside

Take cosmic ride

You will see the illusion

But no more confusion

——

YunusAtSea⚡️🌊 1y ago

The road to hell is paved with good intentions.

But it doesn't eliminate the spectrum of good and evil, 🤗

Many people forget that most religions suggest the middle path. And regardless of what anyone believes it would be foolish to disregard centuries of wisdom.

We understand each other, thankyou for the discourse and God bless you 🙏🏼

Deleted Account 1y ago

God bless you as well. Enjoyed speaking too. Enjoy your world.