nostr:npub1c6efmyn3d5m8pqx78ws25ckde7k6ncenddt68233ehyu5t8mlexq35xg9h There were a better term for it I can't recall correctly, but it is something to do with the notion that you can't tell others what to do or it's considered as condescending, making you look a better person etc... I wish I'd remember that conversation better so I could look for it.
nostr:npub1c6efmyn3d5m8pqx78ws25ckde7k6ncenddt68233ehyu5t8mlexq35xg9h Oh yes got it now:
Terms:
- Tone policing
- Toxic positivity
The argument also focuses on entitlement. Like if you are not part of the harassed minority, you can't say "be kind" as it's understood as "don't be angry about the things you have suffered from" etc.
nostr:npub1cmgqvz7xr07euwkum3mjghjqcu4d3k2fcyf6g4uwwe5ggnd6fetq0wrzd2 I would understand (and agree with) this if there would be context, ie. "be kind" would be a patronizing reply to someone.
Generic "be kind" is hard to find tone policing or toxic positivity in my opinion. But then again, I honestly think kindness is our superpower...
