Sure nostr has no global we, and even at the core there is clearly disagrement whats important, but there is absolutely shared set of community values even if they are unevenly distibuted.
The "we" in nostr comes from the Pareto optimality (we involve ourselves to our communities that is optimal given our resource and time constraints) of involvement any one individual has in a community. A community isnt a communtiy if it has no stable values. A community that also doesn't have a dynamic to change their optimization function in a rapidly evolving landscape is also not long for existing. Both are a necessity.