sorry for the spam the last notes, were just some testing

when I wrote 'relay do not see the repost' I meant my private relay (the one I just created via https://relay.tools)

when I post a note, it is reflected in my relay,

but when you respond, or when I repost something ; it does not pop in that relay

if you fork that post, my guess is that it will appear on your relays

and since we have many relays in common we both can see it.