I still don't understand how many relays I need to be on lol. Or of there is any such thing as having too many(?). Looking forward to a directory of theme-specific relays too:)
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As many as you desire. But my advice is the less the better your account will run as less lag loading time. Less relays faster time more relays running slower nostr lol.. I just try and jump in and out of popular ones for now..
https://next.nostr.watch/relays/find a list of mostly all relays