No app really does it perfectly, I really like Satellite's format but it doesn't recognize all types of reactions, so I sometimes have to complement it with checking nostrudel and amethyst to try and figure out what the fuck's going on.

All this effort only to find someone reacted with a penis to something I said

I like to receive a sound notification. I can set sounds differently, so I instantly know what app/action it is.

Amethyst is great, but no comment notifications and they are usually late behind for example FlyCat.

On browser I use NoStrudel, and I usually keep open FlyCat, Satellite and Primal.

I wish Amethyst had push notifications for comments, it just notifies zaps, my wallet already does that...