God created people with all kinds of predispositions, many of which get distorted. Not a justification for sin.
He has a general loving demeanor towards all his creatures but a special love for his people. Just like a father can show general loving kindness to any child but has a special love for his own children. God's own children are those who repent and follow him, turning away from being the god of their own lives (and sexuality) and submitting to his perfect and loving rule. Nothing can make him stop loving__his own children__and there is an open invitation to be a child of God.