How would you set up the VPN for this?
I use reverse tor proxy but it is very slow 🐢
As #[2] mentioned, BTCPay Server is the best way right now, though Zaps don't show properly on Nostr to it due to a lack of NIP-57 support.
Support is WIP:
https://github.com/btcpayserver/btcpayserver/discussions/4642
On the clearnet side, this is a great reason to run a VPN like IVPN and place BTCPay behind it so you can use it publicly without revealing home IP!
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Setup VPN on the host via something like Wireguard and enable port-forward with your VPN for the HTTPS port.
Could also setup a very cheap VPS as a proxy that proxies connections over Tailscale to the BTCPay Server running elsewhere, would hide true IP address.
Thanks. Tailscale Funnel might be ideal once out of beta