I had a group of 4 (smaller high school)

All 4 married, 1 divorced

Kids 2 / 1 / 1 / 0 -> avg 1

1 does well as I understand it, 2 have paycheck to paycheck, 1 stay at home dad

3 own a home, 1 rents (re: divorce)

All but 1 have defriended me over politics and/or downstream personal drama

1 remains ride or die, and I’m grateful

It ain’t what I thought 34 would be, I’ll tell ya that