Respect that. I was young when I had my first child, spent the rest of my life building around his needs above mine and anyone else’s. Of course I wonder what path I would have chosen or career I would have chased, maybe not having him wouldn’t have gave me the drive early on in my life to strive for a better life. But being able to focus on a career and deciding when to have kids is an amazing choice and I love that for you. 🧡
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I guess guys don't really have that choice. Personally I would never do an abortion. Responsible women don't "just get pregnant" Not that hard to take an extra pill with your vitamins. If I did get pregnant I would drop my career in an instant. Says a lot about you that you stuck around 💜
My respect and admiration for you just keeps growing. Product of good parenting I assume.
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Oh we have a choice. My “dad” made the opposite. Signed the papers and walked away. Which, made me want to do the Opposite. Had my boy at age 21 and still with her and added a set of twins. Been with her 15 years and made it work. Sure. Been easy to walk away, but that’s not what real men do. I know not every situation is the same, but I’ll do everything for my boys and make sure I’m here for them.
I see I showed my age now 😅👀