This icon? Show it together with the new notes button?

just clarifying, so, there is a relay view that can appear on the right side with a relay feed, all of these events are found on a relay. then there is relay sets, which show on the left, and again, they don't appear unless they are on the relay list. so i'm not sure what you mean exactly. perhaps put the relay icon in the "found on relays" list? with the two rectangles and a number next to it bottom right of a note view?