Kinda, a year in. (well to me, it's new. I know others might be single for 2 months and already thought it was too long.)

And yeah an 8-year relationship, so last time something new started was about a decade ago. Phew, too long.

I never really dated much through online or offline means. Usually just someone IRL and if I like them, I hint, they bite or not. 😆😆

Guys did come to me, but usually only the ones I find big red flags or incompatibilities.

Yea I feel many people are so uncommital nowadays, even with basic hangouts, or just not interested in relationships or dating in general. But it's all good, I enjoy good people wherever that naturally connection is at.