I agree with this wholeheartedly, if I'd had a kid sooner I'd have had a kid sooner lol. I'll go so far as to say that if you're having sex, you should be planning on having a kid, preventive measures are not 100%.

And it is a conundrum, if they'd have never gotten married I wouldn't exist but they'd be happier people...that's a therapy sessio; for another day 😉