I hear you. I like it. Both sides have to want to co-exist. I'm not sure I see that.
I think my whole view here is we have done that to death now. Consistent cycles of cease fire, talks, agreements, then back to business as usual.
Both sides as bad as each other. I'm not sure how to resolve that.
We need to start looking through the eyes of 'them' for a start.
Projecting our desires on them won't achieve anything.